Reality of City Life !

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Living a life that follows the ideal notions of what other people think is a terrible way to live. It makes you become the spineless spectator who waits for other people to take action first. It makes you become a follower. Worst of all, it makes you become someone who doesn’t take a stand for anything.
We go through our days thinking about how other people might be judging us.
Also, it’s impossible to live up to everyone’s expectations.
But you know in reality – no one actually cares. When someone is judging you or what you’re doing. I guarantee that chances are—nothing will happen. Absolutely nothing. No one is going to go out of their busy lives to confront us, or even react for that matter.
Start standing up for what you believe in—causes, opinions, anything. 
You need to know what’s important to you in life, what you truly value, and what you’re ultimately aiming for. Once you know who you really are and what matters to you, what other people think of you becomes significantly less important. When you know your values, you’ll have something to stand up for —something you believe in!!!



-Harshita Saloni

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